Lessons from Life for Life

While we each amble through our day to day lives there are some of us who forget to stop and look around. We fail to realize the importance of really taking in our surroundings, appreciating what is right in front of us. Not only the physical surroundings but more importantly the lessons that are being instilled.
No one is ever too young to begin compiling this knowledge and putting it to use. Unfortunately for some, whether it be due to ignorance or just plain oversight, it would seem as though the understanding of these simple lessons is out of reach.
I truly believe that over the years I have acquired a firm grasp on some of life’s most important lessons.

Respect your Elders
These people are the cornerstone’s of our society. They have lived through much more difficult and trying times then most of us could even imagine.
If you really take the time to sit and listen to the stories that they have collected over the years you would be amazed and more likely then not left with a whole new perspective on life.
If you can put the difference in age aside, we’re really not all that different.

Turn the other Cheek
From time to time we come across people who for some reason or another wrong us. It’s hard to say what causes people to be so blind to another’s feelings however it does happen. What do we stand to gain as an individual by holding a grudge or seeking revenge? Are we not, by doing these things, ultimately betraying ourselves? Life is meant to be lived and enjoyed, don’t waste your time or others by looking for retribution. Play the role of the peace keeper not that of a combatant.

Love is Patient, Love is Kind…
A recent life changing event has forced me to ask myself “how can I be a better wife, better mother, better sister, better daughter”? I’m not sure that there is really one solid answer to these questions nevertheless to love someone regardless of the loved one’s qualities or actions is essential.
To be there when you are needed and know when to take a step back and give them the space they require is also notable.

Money doesn’t Grow on Trees
As obvious and redundant as this may sound it is actually extremely valid. Too often do we tend to get caught up in our wants rather than our needs. Make an attempt to prioritize what you really do require as opposed to what you believe you need.

Children are Gifts from God
There is no better feeling in this world then to see the smile on your son or daughters face, the sound of their laughter, feel their arms wrapped around your neck or to hear “I love you” when you need to hear it most.
Children themselves teach us life lessons daily. To live in the moment. A perpetual sense of discovery. Living in the heart and the secret of unconditional love.
God couldn’t have chosen a better gift then the gift of a child. Make sure to cherish every minute you are privileged to spend with your babies.

I’m sure there are dozens of other life lessons that I have not listed above however I truly believe that these five are a few of the most important.